She serves as an unofficial mentor to a small group of younger performers looking to exit the business, helping them draft resumes, apply for small business loans, or simply learn how to cook a meal that isn't delivered.
"Thunder is loud. It’s disruptive. But it’s also natural," she explains, sipping herbal tea. "In my twenties, I was the lightning—fast, unpredictable, striking hard. Now, I’m learning to be the thunder. It rolls in slower, but you feel it in your chest. It commands respect without asking for permission." Thundercock - Remy LaCroix -24.09.2024-
That realization sparked her lifestyle blog, "Remy’s Roots," which launched quietly last spring. The blog eschews the typical influencer aesthetic. There are no sponsored detox teas or filler-heavy skincare routines. Instead, LaCroix writes long-form essays about the psychology of touch, recipes for sourdough bread, and playlists for "processing grief." LaCroix is keenly aware that the industry she left behind has changed radically. The rise of AI-generated content and the normalization of creators on platforms like OnlyFans have democratized adult entertainment, for better or worse. She serves as an unofficial mentor to a
"Thunder is just energy dissipating," she notes as our time wraps up. "It’s loud, yes. But it’s also the sound of pressure releasing. That’s what I want my legacy to be. Not the crash, but the release." But it’s also natural," she explains, sipping herbal tea
"I hit a wall," she recalls. "I realized I had spent years performing for the gaze of others. I didn’t know what I liked to eat, read, or wear when no one was watching."
"I don't judge anyone who stays," she says carefully. "But the economics of fame have shattered. When I started, there was a clear line between the work and your life. Now? The audience expects 24/7 access. That level of 'thunder' would have broken me."