The Changeover -

We are addicted to timelines. We want the six-week transformation challenge. We want the 30-day happiness cleanse. But real change—the kind that rewires your neurons and reshapes your destiny—operates on what the poet David Whyte calls "the time of the heart." It does not punch a clock.

But the collapse is the gift. It is the wrecking ball. And you have to let it swing. The changeover is not a weekend retreat. It is a long, slow, excruciating season of not knowing . The Changeover

Let yourself change.

You will be yours . And that is infinitely better. If you are reading this right now, sitting in your own metaphorical grocery store parking lot, feeling the walls of your old life crumbling around your ears, let me tell you what no one else will: We are addicted to timelines

But here is the problem with a well-built house: eventually, it becomes a prison. But real change—the kind that rewires your neurons

Here is the answer you don't want: As long as it takes.