So before you judge yours — or someone else's — pause.
Your drive is not your worth. But listening to it? That's the beginning of coming home to yourself.
Because sex drive isn't just about sex. It's about aliveness .
Sometimes, it's asking for touch without performance. Sometimes, it's asking for rest. Sometimes, it's crying out for intimacy that has nothing to do with orgasm. And sometimes, silence isn't low libido — it's the soul saying, "I need to feel safe before I can feel desire."