More than 2 million people in the United States are living with limb loss or limb differences, a number expected to double by 2050 due to vascular disease and diabetes. But statistics don’t capture the reality—the sound of a carbon fiber foot hitting pavement, the smell of a new silicone liner, or the quiet triumph of buttoning a shirt with one hand.
| Don't Say | Try Saying | | :--- | :--- | | "You’re so inspiring for just getting out of bed." | "It’s good to see you. How is your pain today?" | | "I don't see you as an amputee." | "I see you. What do you need help with?" | | "At least it wasn't cancer." (Or worse) | "I can't imagine how hard this is. I’m here to listen." | | Staring at the prosthesis. | Asking "Can you tell me how that works? I’m curious." | amputee
Getting a prosthetic leg or arm is not like buying a pair of glasses. It is a brutal, sweaty, often bloody negotiation. More than 2 million people in the United
Learning to walk on a prosthetic leg requires rebuilding the brain’s motor cortex. You must relearn where your "foot" is in space. It is exhausting. A 10-minute walk can burn as much energy as running a mile for a non-amputee. How is your pain today
If you ask an amputee what hurts the most, they won't point to the scar. They will point to the space where their foot used to be.
You will always feel the ghost of your old self. But over time, the phantom pain fades, and the phantom potential grows.